TMI: Just asking…

1. What’s your dirtiest secret?
I’m an attention slut, yes really. Otherwise I have no idea what my dirty secret could be… maybe you guys and girls?

2. What’s the sweetest thing you have done for someone?
I’m always sweet but I do give gifts to people because it made me think of them.

3. What’s your favorite foreplay act to give? Receive?
I love to tease and be teased, in any way…

4. State five (5) facts about your body.

I have very, very, very long legs.

I’m a proud redhead

I’m bendy…

I have a three-pack

I get very, very, very wet

5. Would you like to fondle the person next to you?

Of course! I do love to fondle, especially ass… yes I’m an ass girl…

Bonus: Penis or vagina? Why?

Penis, cause nothing beats having it inside you… And a penis is sooo much easier then a vagina (at least with having one)

If you would like to see more of TMI Tuesday and see what other people have answered, just go over to the blog and find out!

Adult dating

Adult dating is a tricky thing, especially being a woman you get a lot of attention but you have to go through a lot of messages and profiles to find the decent guys and girls. I’ve been on several different sites and no matter what, you always get messages from weird guys (yes it’s mostly guys somehow).

I’ve experimented with mentioning that I’m a sex blogger and even telling in the first line that if you’re looking for an easy hook up that they should move on. And yes they still try. Just because I like to have sex with other people than my own boyfriend, doesn’t mean I’m not picky. Guys (again, yes it’s pretty much always the guys)  sending a one or two sentence message also doesn’t do it. Especially if you haven’t even taken the time to write a decent profile it’s not likely you’ll get a response. Even worse if they can’t manage to read my whole profile and the message clearly shows that they haven’t, I’m not likely to respond. Personally I don’t even know how they can think that might even work. Top tip: read a profile before you send a copy paste message to somebody 😉

I’ve found it to be easier to find people to have fun with online but it’s more tricky to find somebody who will match with you and doesn’t turn out to be creepy. That’s why I make sure I’ve talked to the person a whole lot more than just the general dirty talk. Anybody can do dirty talk typing, the real question is if they can live up to it. That’s why I generally talk a lot first and get to know the other person before actually agreeing to meet.

When it comes to meeting somebody I feel comfortable with talking to, I have no problem at all with that. I’m a bit chicken when it comes to asking people in person and rather be approached then do the approaching. Yes I know, I’m a bit shy when it comes to that stage. My name is Rose, I’m a sex blogger and I have trouble getting laid. Yes really. I wish I could be more straightforward, like the girl who asked me if I wanted to go home with her right away. I’m more cautious and rational usually but I do try. In a swingers club it’s easier though thanks to knowing everybody is there for the same reason 😉

Adult dating, is just like normal dating. You have to sift through a lot of weird messages and a lot of guys that aren’t worth any time. But eventually you will find some lovely people, just trust your instincts and be honest. Honesty I find very important, if a date says one thing and you find out it’s not true. Not a good impression at all. Personally I don’t understand why people would lie because it always comes out in the end. Especially big things like having a partner already and cheating. Trust me a girl always knows when you’re trying to trick her into thinking you’re single. And just like with normal dating you can get disappointed and even get your heart broken if you’re not careful.

When it comes to sites for adult dating, there are a lot of different sites. There are sites leading to others that even have information about adult dating and tips like XXX Sex Guides but more concrete there’s also ones like Fling (casual sex) ,Collar me (all bdsm) Alt (more bdsm and fetish)  SDC (for swingers) and okcupid (more mainstream but I like the features)  that can be used and I’m sure there’s plenty more out there. It also depends on what country you are in of course.

Just for fun, I’ll share some messages with you all.

‘Hmm you wanna know what my specialitis are about sex’

Yeah…no…

‘hello what’s it like in Amsterdam? Cuz am away to go there few months time’

Do I look like a information booth?

‘Hi, how you doing? Can we chat? ‘

Just as short: No.

‘Let’s sneak into the zoo after dark and steal the koala bears. ‘

I have got to admit, I gave him points for originality. But still weird…

‘Hi, let me start by saying I’m not going to ask for nudes or anything. Just want some tips on how to seduce women, since you’re an expert :3 ‘

Okay… I never said I’m an expert on seducing women. Being bisexual doesn’t mean I’m that of an expert on women all of a sudden.

‘well saw your profile and was gonna write a message to you 🙂 then searched your username on google.. found your blogs… checked photos carefully… enjoyed them 🙂 went to shower… and now i am your follower on twitter ! keep up the good work 😉 ‘

I’m flattered but why exactly are you telling me this?

‘Hello heavenly blessed beauty whose beauty is as timeless as those of the great pyramids. I would do battle with a group of hippopotamus with nothing more than a hand carved shank from a saudi arabian oil sheik, jump into a pirahna infested river with two rhinoceros beetles gnawing my testicles, and dive to the depths of the challenger deep with nothing but sarah jessica parkers queef’s as my air supply just to sit next to the guy who sat next to you on the bus in high school. ‘

Yes this is a real message I got and I was just as baffled and confused…. makes you wonder what the guy took…

Meeting someone fun online can be tricky, depending on what you are looking for. So far the most fun people I have met through events and Twitter. I do love meeting new people and with the right atmosphere at events there’s plenty of opportunity to meet new people. So what are you waiting for? 😉

Sinful Sunday: Love bites

This Sinful Sunday is all about Love Bites, I got these from the lovely Miss Serene and I must say that I quite like them.
They look like normal wooly gloves ( normal vampire gloves also come in leather and by the looks of those they are equally fun) so you can even wear them outdoors 😉
So far I’ve only tried them on myself but I can imagine it being more fun if somebody else were to use them on you. They feel quite nice on your skin and if you haven’t tried it already, you certainly should!
Because the pins aren’t just on the fingers but also on the palm you can get yourself in a whole lot of trouble with them 😉

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Photography basics

The inspiration for this blog post came from a conversation I had on twitter. It would seem that there are enough people who love to make pictures and would love to learn, but don’t know how.
So I have good news for those who wish to learn a little bit more about how to make the photos that you want.
In this post I will be sharing a few basics with you, that I learned and that apply to everybody, no matter what camera you have.

Myself, I got a small digital camera and a big digital SLR with both different features, functions and settings but I use both to make pictures for my blog.
The small camera is handy for spontaneous pictures and I can use it with my small tripod anywhere I want to.
The big camera I use a lot with close ups, because that way I don’t have to use the timer and can have more control about what I want to that way.

Background
The background in a picture is very important and can set the mood of your photo. For instance if you want a more mysterious picture, you can use a dark background, like this:

A typical point and hope for the best picture with my SLR

If you look at the picture, you see that the dark background enhances the lightness of the skin. Extra emphasizing is the black and white, what I like to use a lot and it is the only filter I use. Other filters look tempting to experiment with but I only stick to black and white.

Focus

If your you got a better camera you can also set the depth of field, so you got the area what you want to draw attention to is in focus (or not, depending on what you want to do) Here’s an example so you can see the different depths of fields.

Also a point and hope for the best picture with my SLR

You can see the candle in front being fuzzy, the first nipple sharp and behind that the second nipple fuzzy again. Because you can still recognize what’s behind and in front of the focus field, it emphasizes the first nipple.

Composition
The way that you frame whatever you want to capture, is also important. You can also do this afterwards when cropping the image but you can also think ahead and think about how you want it before you make your picture.

The key with making in a picture powerful and interesting is the Golden Ratio. Using this, the key focus of your picture, should be at 2/3rd of the picture. Ideally the most interesting point of your picture would be 2/3rd of 2/3rd. Like in this picture below.

A put the SLR on a chair and hope for the best picture with timer

The orientation of the photograph also helps with showing your best assets 😉 Not to mention the splash of color to draw you in even more. Using composition you can let people look where you want them to look, at what you want to show off.

Shapes

This top tip is thanks to the lovely Mario from Someone Once Told Me who did a session at Eroticon 2013
When he mentioned that he loved shapes and that they are everywhere! Just looking out the window you can spot a lot of different shapes like the rectangular bricks s in this picture. How many shapes do you spot?

Picture made by Urbanvox and his SLR

Shapes can make a picture more interesting to look at or really draw an image together. With this picture it really makes it a whole. To see the rectangles from the bricks with the natural, more flowing round body shapes.

I hope you all liked me sharing some basics and all I can say further is just practice a lot and get to know your camera. I even make the best and funkiest pictures just pointing my camera and not knowing where I’m aiming (yes I do that a lot)
Usually I make pictures on my own but having somebody else to help is not only more handy, but also more fun! So get experimenting and have some fun with it 😉

1+1+1= My first threesome

The three of us, next to the bed
Him kissing her, then me
Then me kissing her. Feeling her lips on mine
Hands wandering over bodies
Feeling a hand on my body, tracing my curves
The hand cupping my breast
Him taking off her top while I undo the buttons of his shirt
All of us getting rid of more clothes on the way
Pushing him on the bed, our boobs at face height

His lips sucking my nipples
Getting hard
Getting wet
Our bodies on to the bed
Biting and kissing his neck
She going down on him
Sucking his hard cock
Hand between my legs
Feeling my wetness
Knowing this will only the beginning
Of a night with a lot of fun
And making her come
My first time with three
Hungering for more

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Eroticon 2013 Meet and Greet

Name: Rose Monrou

Twitter id: @sexwithrose

Must attend Eroticon 2013 session: *peeks at the schedule* There are a lot of sessions that are on my must list but if I would have to choose the Disability and Sex session. This is because I’m super interested and as someone with ADD it’s usually not considered how difficult sex can be. Even with disabilities you can’t see! But of course I’m interested in all the sessions because I’m a very curious geeky girl.

Bloggers you’d like to be trapped in the lift with:  Well depending on how big the lift is…. all of them!

Erotic writer you’d like to write dramatize your life story: I’ll honestly say that I haven’t read much erotica so far and since the only book I have read is Tiffany Reisz it has to be her. Who wouldn’t want some extra excitement and drama in your life?

Expected biggest fangirl / fanboy moment: That also would be a lot of people since I’m quite the noob but I look forward to meeting Lori, Ruby, Mina, and I just could keep going. If you’re there, I’m a fan!

What keeps you awake at nights? Sex, my brain, QI, things I still have to do, Stephen Fry, Dr Who…just to name a couple of things.

If you’re going to Eroticon, I’ll be the tall Dutch redhead. Not hard to miss (usually). Don’t feel shy to say hi! If you’re not going (yet) you can get your tickets here!

See who else is coming to Eroticon 2013 in the Meet & Greet link up

A new year

First of all, a Happy New Year! And I hope you’ll make it just as naughty as I intend to!
I hope you naughty lot keep enjoying my blog just as much as I do and keep up the perving!

A new year has arrived and along with that is of course a list of things I want to do the next year. But there is also a little reflection of the year that has past. It has been a fun but very busy year and I found out a lot about myself.
First of all the biggest thing that I found out is that I have ADD (Attention deficit disorder), for those less informed, it’s the little sister of ADHD but without the hyper part. Just the easily distracted part among other stuff. A lot of stuff fell into place when I found out and yes this also is a factor when it comes to sex.

When it comes to sex it’s hard to block out other stuff, not to mention focus my mind on what is going on.
The trouble with ADD is that you can’t see it or notice it straight away and if you don’t have it, it’s hard to understand.
Some great books help with that and help with describing what goes on within an ADD mind. With me it’s my mind going everywhere within seconds and forgetting what the previous thought was in less then that.

Anyway back to the sex part. Sex can be tricky because of that, I’m easily bored and it takes a lot to excite me and keep me interested. (not to mention the distraction my brain gives and letting me think of other stuff during sex) If you ever find yourself in bed with an ADD person, good luck! We are a lot of fun but we need a lot of input (me at least).

Dirty talk? Yes please. Music in the background? Only instrumental. Hands everywhere? Yes please! Moaning? The more the better! More people? Yes please!

So you lot can imagine the extra difficulty with sex there then. But it’s not all bad, I get excited really quickly and always horny around new people!
Anyway, I’ve got a lot of things I want to try (or do again)  so I decided to make a little list….
This list is part of the bigger list I have over here, to do 101 things in 1001 days. But of course I want to do the sexy stuff all!

• To have…, yes no surprise that I want some girl on girl time and it’s the first thing on my list!
• To have a threesome, moresome and an orgy are also in it, so get organizing? 😉
• To have an awesome Domme outfit and find a sub to test it all out on….
• Pole dancing and lap dancing should be on it as well of course!
• Just like doing burlesque *shimmies and shakes*
• Kissing a lot of different people is on it as well, so beware of unexpected kissing 😉
• Going to Eroticon 2013, but being broke I might have to pout and see if I can help a company out by being my sexy self. Don’t feel shy about contacting me then! Oh yeah and *pout* I’m really friendly and hard working so pretty please? *wink wink*
• To have sex with a celebrity! Again if you are one, I promise I won’t tell who you are if you have sex with me! Unless you’re James Deen of course, then I’d totally dedicate a blog to it! Also I’m a lot of naughty fun in bed 😉 *does pouting face* Please?
• Also a big fun one on my list is learning how to squirt! I’ve felt the well known sensations before so I’m sure it’s there just hasn’t been stimulated enough!

To see the other fun stuff, have a look at the list and who knows, you might be on my to do list!

To all, the best of wishes for the new year and keep on being naughty!